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		<title>Why You Should NEVER Ever Hire a Web Builder Company from a Cold Call</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 19:03:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Marketing Psychology]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Marketing sabotage]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p> Almost every day for the last two weeks I&#8217;ve gotten spammed by website-building / SEO-claiming  / social media-touting strangers.  They are wasting their time emailing me. I report every one as spam and <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/why-you-should-never-ever-hire-a-web-builder-company-from-a-cold-call/">Why You Should NEVER Ever Hire a Web Builder Company from a Cold Call</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
Almost every day for the last two weeks I&#8217;ve gotten spammed by website-building / SEO-claiming  / social media-touting strangers.  They are wasting their time emailing me. I report every one as spam and delete without opening.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
<em><strong>You should too.</strong></em></span></p>
<p><img class="alignright  wp-image-2884" alt="no spam" src="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/no-spam.jpg" width="129" height="128" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;">Legitimate, trustworthy, affordable techies</span><span style="font-size: medium;"><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><span style="font-size: small;">don&#8217;t solicit business this way.</span></strong><br />
<span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
So that&#8217;s your first clue to run,<br />
don&#8217;t walk, to your nearest </span><em style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">delete key</em>.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
When I used to open those emails, or waste the caller&#8217;s time actually talking to them with no intention of getting suckered, it was easy to find out that they wanted to <strong>charge three or four times</strong> what I paid to have this website built. Unless you need a large e-commerce site &#8212; and I know of NO therapist who will ever need that &#8212; you shouldn&#8217;t ever need to pay more than about $800 to have a site built for you.  And you could  <strong>build your own for less than $200.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
Then these scammers <strong>stick it to you with a maintenance plan</strong> &#8211;and boy is that where they really count on your desire to not deal with your website, as most mental health providers don&#8217;t change content often or have features on their sites that require monthly  &#8221;maintenance&#8221;.   Yes, some routine maintenance is a good idea, but quarterly or semi-annually is enough.  You could be paying monthly for what is really only performed that infrequently anyway.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
Of course, many of these cold callers will build you a site using WordPress technology, and it&#8217;s true that there are continual, unexpected, annoying, website security problems all the time with WordPress, so that could be a reason for the frequent maintenance.  But for me, that&#8217;s a reason to stay away from WordPress! or <strong>have an on-call guru to turn to.</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
When it comes to &#8220;design&#8221;, buyer beware.  More often than not what designers and coders think is great and cool is actually <strong>a turn off to prospective psychotherapy clients</strong>. They do not know the needs of the mental health provider, or how the neurologically impaired therapy client&#8217;s brain may be adversely impacted by  minimal content home pages with revolving flash graphics, jarringly bright colors, or auto-play sound loops,  or by straining to read tiny fonts in light grey text on a white background.<span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">   </span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
</span><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Many of these companies <strong>hold you hostage</strong> by being the administrator for your domain name so that when you figure out what a bad deal you got, you can&#8217;t move your site to another host without getting into a battle over securing control over your domain.  You are likely to encounter  <strong>delays and conflict</strong> getting access to  page content files in order to move your site to a different host. Oh my gosh the nightmares I&#8217;ve had with straightening that out for a colleague!</span><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">   </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
I can&#8217;t tell you the number of licensed counselors, psychologists, and social workers I&#8217;ve </span><strong style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">had to rescue from making a big mistake</strong><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"> in hiring a company that engages in cold call email or telemarketing &#8212; 4 this week alone!  </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
Save yourself the cost and hassle. </span><strong style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">NEVER ever hire anyone who cold calls you</strong><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"> or sends you a solicitation email out of the blue. </span></p>
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Need a referral for a web designer, SEO specialist, social media maven or other techie you can trust?   Ask your colleagues you&#8217;ve had good experiences with their tech helpers, check Angie&#8217;s List, or ask me for the best recommendations to fit your needs.</span></p>
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		<title>Just in Time Marketing Help for Introverts &amp; New Solopreneurs</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jun 2013 19:01:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Attract More Clients]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Basics for counselors & coaches]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[<p class="wp-caption-text">Only 5 slots open in this Summer Introverts Marketing Lab starting June 22, 2013</p> <p>Every day I come across clinicians and coaches who are just starting out in private practice, who are struggling with <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/just-in-time-marketing-help-for-introverts-new-solopreneurs/">Just in Time Marketing Help for Introverts &#038; New Solopreneurs</a></span>]]></description>
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<p>Every day I come across clinicians and coaches who are just starting out in private practice, who are struggling with the steep learning curve that is private practice promotion. And I hear from seasoned professionals who have been service providers for a long time, but whose client load has fallen, and they&#8217;re feeling lost in the current landscape of new marketing methods.</p>
<p>So I created the Introverts Marketing Lab a few years ago to help solopreneurs master the DIY technology needed, provide a road map for how to market for your ideal client, teach the skills we didn&#8217;t get in grad school &#8212; like building websites and blogging to get clients &#8212; and help you get your marketing foundations in place.</p>
<p>But if you want to give it a try alone first, the question is &#8212;  with so many colleagues recommending so many different tactics, and contradicting each other on what to do, how can you know what is right for you?</p>
<p><em><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Deah&#8217;s No Hype Marketing Map</strong></span></em></p>
<p>Well, here&#8217;s what I advise, in the Lab and with my private clients, and in this order, for the most time and cost efficient approach, with the least frustration, anxiety and overwhelm.</p>
<p><strong>1.  Define Your Ideal Client</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="line-height: 12.997159004211426px;">who are they</span></li>
<li>what is their current main problem</li>
<li>where are they</li>
<li>what motivates them to get help</li>
</ul>
<p>If you can&#8217;t answer these 4 questions with specific and vivid detail, nothing else you do towards promoting your practice will draw clients.</p>
<p><strong>2.  Create an Interactive, Sticky Website</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Interactive = gives visitors things to do</li>
<li>Sticky = encourages visitors to stay on your site</li>
<li><span style="line-height: 12.997159004211426px;">Must have frequently new content, preferably on the home page</span></li>
<li>If you will blog weekly, having your blog on the home page is a good idea</li>
<li>Videos of you speaking are  helpful &#8212; can be incorporated in your blog (vlog = video blog)</li>
<li>Include social media buttons for sharing your site</li>
</ul>
<p>I recommend <strong><a href="http://wix.com">Wix.com</a></strong> for the best do-it-yourselfer options, but if you&#8217;re determined to wrestle with WordPress, ask me about my guru.</p>
<p><strong>3.  Set up your social media</strong> professional accounts / pages &#8212; see mine as examples:</p>
<ul>
<li><span style="line-height: 12.997159004211426px;">do personal <strong><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/deahcurry/">LinkedIn profile</a></strong>, but focus it on your professional persona</span></li>
<li>open a  <strong><a href="http://https://www.facebook.com/CreativeAlternativesCoach">business / fan page on Facebook </a></strong> from your <em>personal</em> account</li>
<li>set up a <strong><a href="https://plus.google.com/u/0/101506143078326363006/posts">Google+ page</a></strong></li>
<li>skip Twitter (my 2 cents is that it is worthless for private practice client attraction)</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>4.  List on the best directories</strong> for your niche in your area. To find them do a Google search for the word <em>counseling</em> or <em>psychologist</em> or <em>personal coaching</em></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="line-height: 12.997159004211426px;"><strong><a href="http://PsychologyToday.com">PsychologyToday.com</a></strong>  for mental health providers</span></li>
<li><strong><a href="http://Theravive.com">Theravive.com</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a href="http://NetworkTherapy.com">NetworkTherapy.com</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a href="http://GoodTherapy.org">GoodTherapy.org</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a href="http://Noomii.com ">Noomii.com </a>  </strong>for coaches</li>
<li><strong><a href="http://Thumbtack.com">Thumbtack.com</a></strong></li>
<li><strong><a href="http://Biznik.com">Biznik.com</a></strong></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>5. List on Google Places</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="line-height: 12.997159004211426px;"><a href="https://support.google.com/places/bin/answer.py?hl=en&amp;answer=142902">Here&#8217;s a guide that walks you through it </a></span></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>6. Set up a marketing plan you can work at <em>daily</em></strong></p>
<ul>
<li><span style="line-height: 12.997159004211426px;">include content marketing &#8212; blogging, social media posts, article writing, etc</span></li>
<li>include community outreach &#8212; referral building, signature talks</li>
<li>include maintenance of your foundations (#1-4 above)</li>
<li>spend at least 2 hours every day on something related to marketing if you want a full practice</li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><em><strong>Tips and Tricks</strong></em></span></p>
<p>Of course there are many different ways to approach this map. As much as it might look generic, it&#8217;s not really a one size fits all plan.  So the first tip is this &#8212; tailor every marketing effort to fit your personality and to speak to your ideal client in the way they are most likely to respond.</p>
<p>Need more training and help?  <span style="font-size: medium;"><strong><a href="http://thenohypementor.com/trainings/">Enroll in the Summer Introverts Marketing Lab here</a></strong></span>, and get the best start on filling your client load for autumn.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 May 2013 16:10:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you a therapist who is entering the world of self-publishing?  I don&#8217;t mean blogging, or writing a 20 page pdf ebook of tips for your niche population.  I mean, publishing an honest-to-goodness book <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/does-your-book-need-a-website/">Does Your Book Need a Website?</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you a therapist who is entering the world of self-publishing?  I don&#8217;t mean blogging, or writing a 20 page pdf ebook of tips for your niche population.  I mean, publishing an honest-to-goodness book in softcover or digital versions.</p>
<p>A number of us have self-published, and I hear from others every week who are thinking about it.  Questions that eventually comes up are:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong><em>Do I need another website as an author?<br />
Does my book need its own website?<br />
Isn&#8217;t its Amazon sales page enough?</em></strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been researching this lately, for myself and a couple clients, and here&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve learned.  <strong>No, an Amazon sales page is not enough.</strong>  And if you intend to be a serious writer as an additional professional persona, <strong>yes you should have a website</strong> that showcases you as an author because it can help sales, and is better for gaining media attention &#8212; and hence, interviews about your book.</p>
<p>Some gurus suggest that <strong>every book title be its own domain name</strong>.  That can&#8217;t hurt. but if you fall in love with writing and find yourself publishing more than the once-in-a-lifetime book, it&#8217;s better  (and easier) to have one website with a page for each book so that fans can find your body of work all in one place.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Authors Have to Market Too</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Bad news &#8212; authors still have to promote themselves and their books.  Venturing into self-publishing doesn&#8217;t relieve the coach or counselor from that chore.  But marketing for book sales  and to generate a fan base has some different needs and challenges from those involved with marketing for clients to set appointments.  </span><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><br />
</span></p>
<p>Just like with a psychotherapy private practice,  a website can &#8212; and I think should &#8212; be the center for all other marketing for your self-published books.  Think of it as a very important employee with a specific job description. Start with the purpose you want it to serve for you.</p>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Will it be the author&#8217;s own (your)  <strong>point of sale site</strong>? </span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Will it be to <strong>generate buzz</strong> for the newest book? </span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Will it be the <strong>media info for interviews</strong> site? </span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Will it be a <strong>fan cultivation</strong> site? </span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Will it be a <strong>broad umbrella</strong> for your creative interests site? </span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Will it be some mix of these purposes?</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Once you are clear about the purpose, the content for your author website will be more obvious. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Have you looked at other authors&#8217; websites?    Here are three that may be instructive in terms of what to have on your own book or publishing website:</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><a href="http://www.julietmarillier.com/author.html">http://www.julietmarillier.com/author.html</a>   </span><br />
<a href="http://www.julietmarillier.com/author.html"><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">http://www.tomclancy.com/   </span></a><br />
<a href="http://www.julietmarillier.com/author.html"><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">http://www.danbrown.com/#author-section</span></a></p>
<p>Extrapolating from these, against the background of what I would coach a therapist to do, and for those of us who aren&#8217;t quite in the above league yet, I&#8217;d suggest an author website with these basic pages:</p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><strong>Homepage<br />
</strong><span id="__mceDel" style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"><b>     </b>either featuring the promotion for the latest work, or a message to readers</span></span></span></p>
<p><strong>About Page<br />
</strong>      a warm, friendly, funny piece on why and/or how you write</p>
<p><strong>Media Page<br />
</strong>     your online press kit</p>
<p><strong>Backstory Page<br />
</strong>     bits on characters, psychodynamics, history of treatment methods or pioneers of those methods, time periods, or events, or other stuff that didn&#8217;t make it in the final book(s) but would be of interest to fans</p>
<p><strong>Excerpt Page<br />
</strong><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">     1000 words or so, depending on length of the book, with a button link to your point of sale  such as Amazon, PayPal, or whatever</span></p>
<p><strong>Blog  Page<br />
</strong>     This could be useful in various ways:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">1. reveal your process, write &#8220;inside the writer&#8217;s daily life&#8221; type stuff &#8212; it helps in cultivating a fan base</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">2. give some of your research, as education for the reader, and to tempt them to read your book</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">3. discuss universal dilemmas, as relate to your book(s) and how they exist today</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">4. do &#8220;this date in history&#8221; posts, those are usually popular</p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">5.  do &#8221; identify this object&#8221; posts, with photos of stuff from by gone eras &#8212; also popular</span></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size: medium;">Don&#8217;t Forget Facebook</span></strong></p>
<p>Building a website with these components may be a more involved project than you want to tackle immediately, although it would be best in the long run.  But a faster solution is to create one or more Facebook fan pages.  I&#8217;d recommend one in the name of your book title(s) to start with.</p>
<p>And if you know you will be publishing more than just one book, create another Facebook fan page for yourself as an author / publisher.</p>
<p>Whether you use Facebook&#8217;s ads or promoted posts, you&#8217;ll still need to gain Likes for the page, and engage with the Facebook audience frequently to sustain interest in your book. This is where a social media marketing plan will be helpful.  More on that in a future No Hype Mentor post.</p>
<p>Happy writing!</p>
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		<title>How to Start Blogging When You Really Don&#8217;t Like to Write</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 May 2013 18:36:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Coaches and counselors hear it all the time &#8212; you need a blog.  But what should you blog about? And what if you really aren&#8217;t a good writer, or don&#8217;t like to write?</p> <p>Good <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/how-to-start-blogging-when-you-really-dont-like-to-write/">How to Start Blogging When You Really Don&#8217;t Like to Write</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Coaches and counselors hear it all the time &#8212; you need a blog.  But what should you blog about? And what if you really aren&#8217;t a good writer, or don&#8217;t like to write?</p>
<p>Good news &#8212; not having a blog won&#8217;t kill your practice.  Even better news &#8212; maybe posting a sentence or two a day on social media would work better for you. You really don&#8217;t <em>have to</em> blog.  But if you do, these would be my tips for you.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Before You Start Writing</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">1. know who your readers are and what motivates them to read / seek information<br />
2. know how they like to learn &#8212; long essays? short bullet points? anecdotes?<br />
3. know the problems they are desperate to solve<br />
4. frame the solutions as questions &#8212; each question is a blog title<br />
<span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">5. define 2 or 3 main points to address about each solution &#8212; those are subheads</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Plunge In<br />
</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">6. start writing in answer to the question and sub-points<br />
<span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">7. prepare 6 or so blog posts before creating the blogsite<br />
</span>8. include a call to action at the end of each post<br />
<span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">9. Spelling and basic grammar do need to be perfect.  (The rest, not so much)<br />
</span><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">10. Make it read fast, friendly, and fun.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Format for readability: </strong></span><em id="__mceDel"><em id="__mceDel"><em id="__mceDel"><em id="__mceDel"><em id="__mceDel"><em id="__mceDel"><em id="__mceDel"><em id="__mceDel"><em id="__mceDel"><br />
</em></em></em></em></em></em></em></em></em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;">11. keep sentences short &#8212; 10 words max<br />
12. keep paragraphs short &#8212; 2-3 sentences max<br />
13. double space between paragraphs<br />
14. don&#8217;t put entire content in italics<br />
15. use black or dark navy font color if you have a white background</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t forget to include a copyright notice on each post or at least on the page. All writers automatically and immediately own their intellectual property &#8212; even blog posts &#8212; at the moment they are created.  It&#8217;s good to remind others of that by making your copyright noticeable.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Explore different blogsites:</strong></span></p>
<p>There are more options than just WordPress (thank goddess!).  Check these out:<br />
~ <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/redirect?url=http%3A%2F%2Fblogger%2Ecom&amp;urlhash=KYFn&amp;_t=tracking_disc" target="_blank">http://blogger.com</a> (a Google product, btw)<br />
~ <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/redirect?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftumblr%2Ecom&amp;urlhash=4KZV&amp;_t=tracking_disc" target="_blank">http://tumblr.com</a> (a mix of blog and social media)<br />
~ <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/redirect?url=http%3A%2F%2Ftypepad%2Ecom&amp;urlhash=CiYZ&amp;_t=tracking_disc" target="_blank">http://typepad.com</a> (an older option)</p>
<p>And many website hosts have blog options that are available with a simple click of button.  A couple of those that I like the best because they are fairly easy for do-it-yourselfers and look okay from a design perspective, are:</p>
<p>~ <a href="http://SquareSpace.com">http://SquareSpace.com</a><br />
~ <a href="http://VistaPrint.com">http://VistaPrint.com</a><br />
~ <a href="http://Wix.com">http://Wix.com</a> (actually integrates a Blogger feed rather than providing blog architecture)</p>
<p>So in short &#8212; when you know or can assume what problem your potential clients are wanting to solve, you will have endless ideas for writing your blog, and making it a major marketing method for you.</p>
<p>And if you still need help, I&#8217;ve available for brief consults.  <a href="http://TheNoHyepMentor.com/consults"><strong>See details here.</strong></a></p>
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		<title>Can You Really Coach Anyone?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 May 2013 20:36:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Coaching is often defined as facilitation of the client’s discovery or exploratory process. I’ve always wondered why clients would pay for that.</p> <p>Nonetheless, one popular meme embedded in a lot of coach training programs <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/can-you-really-coach-anyone/">Can You Really Coach Anyone?</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Coaching is often defined as facilitation of the client’s discovery or exploratory process. I’ve always wondered why clients would pay for that.</p>
<p>Nonetheless, one popular meme embedded in a lot of coach training programs is that a good coach can coach anyone if they are willing to be coached.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>I strongly disagree.<a href="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/allladder.png"><img class="alignright  wp-image-2839" style="margin: 15px;" alt="No Hype Coaching ladder" src="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/allladder-280x400.png" width="224" height="320" /></a></strong></span></p>
<p>Maybe I’m just abnormally solution focused, but I want my coach to have specific suggestions that I can experiment with. Then I’ll decide for myself, thank you, which is best for my goals. I want the benefit of her experience and what she learned from her mistakes. I appreciate her opinions about what might be helpful, according to her understanding of my vision, values and purpose.</p>
<p>And that requires that my coach has relevant knowledge, some amount of experience on a similar ladder to success, and is willing to offer it for my consideration.</p>
<p>Plus, that piece about the coach succeeding only if the client is willing bothers me. It’s almost an abdication of responsibility, somehow.  Maybe it’s just me, but I think if someone is paying me for my services, they want more than just questions about their process. When I’m the client, I want more.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Coach Self-Confidence</b></span></p>
<p>This idea that a good coach can coach anyone is, in my opinion, a set up for coaches to feel incompetent.  Too often the non-directive coach appears timid, uncertain, or inexperienced.  As a result, what is felt by the coach and could be conveyed to the client is insecurity.</p>
<p>One of my mentors used to say that to adequately help another, one must be further along the road than the client. As a coach or a counselor, I think that&#8217;s true.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s also a matter of integrity, in that I believe helpers – be they therapists, independent teachers, or healers &#8212;  have an obligation to have gained some success overcoming their own issues before attempting to help others with those same issues. And then they have the responsibility to provide the wisdom of their experience – not in a way that overshadows the client’s own process, but as a solution-resource.</p>
<p>From a practical perspective, personal insecurity is a great saboteur of professional competence. Asking the bold, empowering question takes a certain level of confidence in oneself. Great coaching requires the coach to not be silently second guessing themselves and feeling like a fraud.</p>
<p>So my coaching on this for other coaches is to ask yourself these questions:</p>
<ul>
<li>Have you had your own struggle with a problem similar to your client’s ?</li>
<li>What did you learn that can be shared for your client’s benefit?</li>
<li>What helped you? How can you suggest something similar?</li>
<li>To what extent do you feel you&#8217;ve changed or improved because of your struggle?</li>
<li>What gets in the way of feeling like you should share your experience?</li>
<li>How can you reorient your perception of not being good enough to help your clients?</li>
</ul>
<p>If you’re a coach who feels insecure in helping others, or like a fraud because you haven’t 100% conquered your own challenges, I’d like to help.  <strong><a href="http://thenohypementor.com/consults">See details</a></strong> on single consults or <strong><a href="http://thenohypementor.com/coaching">check here</a></strong> for my coaching packages.</p>
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		<title>The Dark Side of Online Marketing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 18:47:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Spam, critical or inappropriate comments, and bad reviews – do you fear them or look at them as opportunities to respond from higher ground?</p> <p>Counselors, coaches, psychotherapists, psychologists and social workers who are new <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/the-dark-side-of-online-marketing/">The Dark Side of Online Marketing</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Spam, critical or inappropriate comments, and bad reviews – do you fear them or look at them as opportunities to respond from higher ground?</p>
<p>Counselors, coaches, psychotherapists, psychologists and social workers who are new to private practice and marketing online to  gain clients will encounter these dark side elements of using the internet.  It’s unavoidable.</p>
<p>These elements aren’t new to the world of business. They’re just digitized now. So what can you do?</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b><i>Controlling Spam<a href="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/creating-info.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2827" alt="Controlling spam" src="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/creating-info-150x150.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a></i></b></span></p>
<p>Think of controlling spam as just a business hygiene habit.  It’s something that has to be done, but that can be systematized so that it’s routine and takes little time or effort.</p>
<p>As soon as you put up a website with your email address openly displayed, or a contact form, you are likely to get spammed.  Spam is the junk mail of the internet, and most email providers can be set to minimize how much is received and to isolate it in a special folder to keep it out of your inbox.</p>
<p>While a contact form provides a better deterrent than an email link, it’s not a 100% safeguard against spam.   A second line of defense is to use a <i>captcha</i> device which requires the email sender to decipher a scrambled, partially obscured set of letters and / or numbers before completing the communication.</p>
<p>If your website or blog host does not offer a <i>captcha</i> tool, you might be able to upload the html code for a form from <strong><a href="http://www.Wufoo.com">www.Wufoo.com</a></strong> or <strong><a href="http://www.EmailMeForm.com">www.EmailMeForm.com</a></strong>.  Both of these tools have a free level of membership.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b><i>Critical or Inappropriate Comments</i></b></span></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1198" alt="handle online criticism professionally" src="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/Scold-150x121.jpg" width="150" height="121" /></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">In social media, we can’t control what others say.  And it is inevitable that you will occasionally get criticized for something.  It may be mean, nasty and unjustified, but it will be out there and you’ll have to deal with it.  </span>If you blog or post on a forum or other social media, once in a while comments may be just irrelevant, self-promoting, lewd, or incoherent. These can be deleted. It’s a good idea to set your blog so that you can moderate and approve all comments.</p>
<p>The worst thing to do is to bite back.</p>
<p>As much as we all have the instinct to defend ourselves or not take unfair or hurtful crap lying down, retaliation in kind will just make you look bad.  And if potential clients or referral sources are watching – and you never know when they are – you’ll be destroying your professional credibility to indulge a primitive urge.</p>
<p>The best thing to do instead is to put on your professional knickers.  Handle this like you would handle the sarcastic, cutting, cruel  comments from a manipulative, raging, blaming, acting out client – with empathy, curiosity, boundary setting, and apology if you are in the wrong.</p>
<p>Or, simply withdraw from the field of battle.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b><i>Bad Reviews<a href="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Simon-Cowell-Thumbs-Down.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2823" alt="handling bad reviews" src="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Simon-Cowell-Thumbs-Down-150x150.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a></i></b></span></p>
<p>It’s an accepted premise in business that sooner or later you’ll get some bad reviews.  I’ll talk in another post about some preventive measures that will minimize that and how to manage your online reputation.</p>
<p>For now, the key point is that bad reviews aren’t disastrous unless you respond poorly.</p>
<p>Review sites such as Yelp, InsiderPages, and high traffic sites like Twitter and Bing among others serve to praise good businesses and to warn the unsuspecting away from bad businesses. Total strangers and clients alike may be asked to vote on or rate your services.  In this era when public opinion is the currency of initial likeability, trust and rapport, solopreneurs are right to have a little trepidation about getting bad reviews.</p>
<p>But the problem is not the bad review &#8212; it&#8217;s how you respond to it publicly that can turn off potential clients.  Best to respond in a way that convinces the unseen audience to take the review with a grain of salt and give you a chance.</p>
<p>Best response is to use your active listening skills, then do what other businesses do when a public relations problem is brewing &#8212; offer a &#8220;make good&#8221; option.  Anything from a free session to a free information product will go a long way towards demonstrating your desire to take corrective action.  Even if the reviewing critic doesn&#8217;t accept, the readers will see your effort and think better of you for it.</p>
<p>Dealing with a dark side marketing or public relations problem in your practice and want a consult on the best way to handle it?  <a href="http://TheNoHypeMentor.com/consults">See this page</a> for details on consulting with me.</p>
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		<title>Where Do I Find Clients?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 15:31:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s the age-old question, isn&#8217;t it?  I hear it everyday from new counselors and coaches.  And I&#8217;m going to stand that question on its ear with this personal story.</p> <p>When I started out, I <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/where-do-i-find-clients/">Where Do I Find Clients?</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s the age-old question, isn&#8217;t it?  I hear it everyday from new counselors and coaches.  And I&#8217;m going to stand that question on its ear with this personal story.<a href="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/magnify.jpg"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2811" alt="client attraction, marketing, finding clients" src="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/magnify-150x150.jpg" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">When I started out, I got similar advice from the extroverts &#8212; getting clients is all in the networking and referral building, so join leads groups, give signature talks, send out letters of introduction, invite influence leaders to coffee and tell them about your ideal client.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;">But I&#8217;m an Introvert</span></p>
<p>Leads groups and the networking scene just doesn&#8217;t work for me.  I can&#8217;t naturally shine that way. I had to find ways to be the magnet that attracts the clients I want to work with.</p>
<p>That meant starting with a content rich / sticky / optimized website as the main hub from which all other marketing flows. And information products to help potential clients get to know, like and trust my message. And blogging, social media, ezining, and free tele-classes.</p>
<p>All that started working like little digital energizer salesmen on my behalf.  And then I started feeling comfortable enough for some community outreach via facilitating MeetUps and giving workshops through Biznik.</p>
<p>In short, know whether it&#8217;s the extrovert or introvert approach that will let your true self shine, establish yourself that way first, and clients will be attracted to you. In my experience, that&#8217;s been sooooo much easier than try to chase possible clients and convince decision makers.</p>
<p>Now, I really don&#8217;t worry about getting clients. They come to me, willing to wait to get on my waiting list. I just focus on providing helpful information, and the rest falls into place.</p>
<p>I post tips for solopreneur coaches and counselors every day at, and my blog feed shows up there too.<br />
<strong><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/redirect?url=http%3A%2F%2Ffacebook%2Ecom%2FNoHypeMentor&amp;urlhash=yQuZ&amp;_t=tracking_disc" target="blank" rel="nofollow">https://facebook.com/NoHypeMentor</a></strong>.  You&#8217;re welcome to come join the colleagues who are looking to to attract more clients by letting their personality shine.</p>
<p>Or join my other page at <strong><a href="https://www.facebook.com/CreativeAlternativesCoach">https://www.facebook.com/CreativeAlternativesCoach</a></strong> to see how I use Facebook to generate visibility with the non-professional client population.</p>
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		<title>The 4 Types of Content Writing Potential Clients Need from You</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Apr 2013 17:50:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Writing for the purpose of marketing the couples counseling, psychotherapy, life coaching, psychological services or clinical social work practice is quite different from the academic writing we all needed to master in graduate school.</p> <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/the-4-types-of-content-writing-potential-clients-need-from-you/">The 4 Types of Content Writing Potential Clients Need from You</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Writing for the purpose of marketing the couples counseling, psychotherapy, life coaching, psychological services or clinical social work practice is quite different from the academic writing we all needed to master in graduate school.</span></p>
<p>Content writing and its cousin, copywriting, have <strong>different rules and structures</strong>.  And most healers and helpers struggle with this type of writing.</p>
<p>In brief, <strong>the 4 types</strong> of content writing most useful to solorpreneurs are:</p>
<ol>
<li>The <strong>motivational</strong> marketing message</li>
<li>The event or special offer <strong>promotion</strong></li>
<li>The <strong>informational</strong> article</li>
<li>The <strong>nuts and bolts</strong></li>
</ol>
<h2>The Motivational Marketing Message</h2>
<p>A marketing pitch, or message, has two purposes – to <strong>make an emotional connection</strong> with the reader, and to <strong>motivate an action.</strong></p>
<p>Following a specific structure, a marketing message <strong>leads potential clients through a thought process</strong> designed to come to the conclusion that they want to work with you. The sequential structure of an effective marketing message is very important. In essence, the structure is:</p>
<ul>
<li>Name the pain</li>
<li>Empathize with the experience</li>
<li>Validate  / convey you understand</li>
<li>Describe the cost of continuing the pain</li>
<li>Voice obstacles to making change</li>
<li>Reassure  / convey you understand</li>
<li>Future pace life after solution</li>
<li>Call to action</li>
<li>Motivating confirmation of right decision</li>
</ul>
<p>Still need help with writing your marketing message? I am happy to consult with you or write it for you.  See <strong><a href="http://thenohypementor.com/how-to-choose/" target="_blank">details about that</a></strong> here.</p>
<h2>The Promotion</h2>
<p>Writing to encourage enrollment in an event or to get takers for a special offer is similar to a marketing message in purpose.  How extensively a promotion might follow the structure of a pitch will depend on where you place the promotion – a multiple emails campaign will obviously require more than a Facebook post.</p>
<p>Examples of other promotional writing would be:</p>
<ul>
<li><span style="line-height: 12.997159004211426px;">rack cards</span></li>
<li>email marketing</li>
<li>social media posts</li>
<li>referral request letters</li>
<li>event fliers and postcards</li>
</ul>
<p>The main difference is in have a good title and your dates and/or costs up front in a promotion.   Titles can be quite difficult to do well – I often spend the most time on those.   <span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Or, in the case of referral request letters, the difference from a marketing message is to establish how referring to you will help the allied professional serve your mutual clients.</span><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"> </span></p>
<h2>The Informational Article</h2>
<p>This type of writing more closely resembles journalism. It <strong>describes a problem</strong> – one for which you are presumably a specialist at resolving – <strong>explores causes</strong> or examples, <strong>provides self help</strong> suggestions or resources, and because you are still marketing, ends with a <strong>call to action.</strong></p>
<p>Informational articles should be written in a casual, friendly tone rather than a stiffer, impersonal academic style.  Think Wikipedia, not  Journal of Applied Psychoanalysis.  An <strong>ebook or special report</strong> would fall into this category of informational writing.</p>
<p>This type of writing forms the bulk of most web content. You can use it as separate web pages to help establish your professional authority, and in short versions, as <strong>blog posts</strong>.  For a number of examples of the information article, see the links on my home page at <strong><a href="http://www.deahcurryphd.com/">www.DeahCurryPhD.com</a></strong> .</p>
<p>If you need help writing or editing informational articles,  <strong><a href="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/downloads/2013/01/Content-Marketing-Fact-Sheet-rev3.pdf" target="_blank">click here</a></strong>  for how I can assist you.</p>
<h2>Nuts and Bolts Writing</h2>
<p>What I mean by nuts and bolts is pure explanation and direction.  A website’s <strong>FAQ page</strong> is nuts and bolts writing – info that makes it easy for people to work with you.  It doesn’t empathize, make a compelling emotional connection, reassure, validate or motivate.  It just explains which bus to take and how to pay.</p>
<p>Nuts and bolts are what clients look for and <strong>need AFTER they have made the decision</strong> to work with you. This information doesn’t cause readers to convert into clients, but the absence of it can make some readers change their decision.</p>
<p>Lack of nuts and bolts information can create the impression of a lack of clear thinking about what people need to know, or even convey a lack of professionalism or give an appearance of self-absorption.<br />
If you are struggling with writing web content,  if it&#8217;s not fun for you, if you just don&#8217;t have the time to sit through trainings on how to do it, I&#8217;m happy to ghostwrite for you.  The range of the type of writing I&#8217;m available to do can be <strong><a href="http://thenohypementor.com/content-writing/" target="_blank">viewed here.</a></strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Apr 2013 17:07:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Setting private practice therapy fees is usually a gut-wrenching process for most psychotherapists of all stripes – couples counselors, psychologists, marriage and family therapists, clinical social workers, and so on. <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/dragging-fee-for-service-paradigms-into-the-light/">Dragging Fee-for-Service Paradigms into the Light</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Setting private practice therapy fees is usually a gut-wrenching process for most psychotherapists of all stripes – couples counselors, psychologists, marriage and family therapists, clinical social workers, and so on.</p>
<p>A recent discussion among colleagues made it clear to me that there are a handful of cash-based fee for service paradigms that are argued about as if there was one RIGHT way to proceed. Usually there’s more heat than light generated by these discussions.</p>
<p>Since I rarely believe there is one right way for anything under the sun, let alone in business, here’s my 2 cents on the options as I see them.<br />
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<h2><b>2 Dollars for Hours Models</b></h2>
<p><span style="font-size: small;"><b><span style="color: #ffffff;">.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;">The Expert’s Worth</span> model</b> </span> is the straightforward, dollar per hour equals value of service model.  Usually when this model is discussed it is from a perspective that is framed as:</p>
<ul>
<li>the intrinsic worth of the practitioner’s expertise</li>
<li>the special uniqueness of therapy being unlike other businesses</li>
<li>the value of the time and cost invested in higher education</li>
<li>the years of servitude while accumulating hours for licensure</li>
</ul>
<p><b><i>Small Advantage</i></b>     In this model, there is the limited advantage to offering fee adjustments such as sliding scale or discounts. It’s mostly a clinical advantage in that a lower fee helps sustain the therapeutic relationship and progress when clients have an unexpected financial set back.</p>
<p><b><i>Big Disadvantage     </i></b>Marketing routine discounts when operating in this model can be a disadvantageous, if not risky, practice to one&#8217;s financial health. Advertising that discounts may be available encourages people to ask for them, and wonder why your rates aren’t just lower in the first place. And that will be an obstacle to rapport and trust.</p>
<p>There is also a disadvantage to mental / emotional well-being due to the deleterious impact on professional confidence and personal self-esteem.  If one&#8217;s sense of self worth is pegged to a certain dollar value &#8230;. well, we can expect problems at some point and we can all diagnose that issue.</p>
<p><b><span style="color: #ffffff;">.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;">The Nobility &amp; Needs of Poverty</span>  </b>model<b> </b> is the second option.  This is still the basic dollar per hour idea, but the perspective is from the opposite direction. This model is based on what clients will pay for what they believe is the value to them, or within the limits they can afford.  The ideas of marketing sliding scale or other discounts off full fee belongs to this model.</p>
<p>Clinicians seem to adopt this model because they:</p>
<ul>
<li>believe therapy is something sacred</li>
<li>are uncomfortable with putting a price on their own expertise</li>
<li>don’t like feeling like a business owner</li>
<li>can’t charge others what they would balk at paying</li>
<li>feel a mission to serve the poor</li>
<li>never dealt with billing and payment at their agencies</li>
<li>feel mental health shouldn’t be just affordable for the rich</li>
</ul>
<p>In this model &#8212; which many therapists adopt without thinking about options &#8212; there is an alignment with the poverty consciousness of clients as well as a sense of the nobility of the work that shouldn&#8217;t be sullied by ugly monetary commerce.</p>
<p><b><i>Advantage     </i></b>Marketing that you offer a sliding scale may indeed attract clients. A creative practitioner I know tells his patients that he has a fee range and they are free to select their rate within that. Most select the midpoint, rather than the bottom. He doesn’t get caught up in negotiating or checking their pay slips to verify qualifying income – a distasteful prospect for many theapists.</p>
<p><b><i>Disadvantage    </i></b>Marketing low affordable rates and sliding scale or other discounts off full fee often attracts clients that don’t stick with the work, or are more demanding in terms of expecting you to create their results by magic wand. Plus, can you sustain a practice if everyone demands your sliding scale?<br />
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<h2><b>2 Business-Mindset Models</b></h2>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">.</span><br />
The<span style="font-size: medium;"> <b>Strategic Loss Leader</b> </span> model is dollars for expenses, thinly veiled as dollars for hours.  It would have you start your fee structure with an in-depth financial analysis of your expenses, available clinical hours per month, number of planned days off, and level of income desired per year, then factors in unplanned personal unpaid sick day and a reasonable level of unpaid client no-shows, to arrive at the necessary fee per hour.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-2789" alt="If a train leaves Chicago what fee does your therapist get?" src="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/EastTrains-400x250.jpg" width="400" height="250" /></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">Calculations are performed, I’m told, with a slide rule – not to be confused with a sliding scale &#8212; and some trigonomic formula involving trains leaving Chicago meeting other trains in Utah at 60 miles per hour.  I’m never sure if mileage and per diem are part of the formula, and my slide rule is serving as a door stop, so …..   <img src='http://thenohypementor.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_rolleyes.gif' alt=':roll:' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></p>
<p>In this model  &#8211; when managed by a true business mind instead of one who mastered [cough] geometry by playing pool (you know, for all the practice with angles) &#8212; discounts would be strategically planned loss leaders used as a lever for increasing client numbers during predictable downturns.  <span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;">The cost of those discounts are factored into the initial and yearly reviewed financial analysis.  Marketing might resemble using Groupon, buy 5 get the 6</span><sup style="line-height: 19px;">th</sup><span style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;"> half off, and other consumer-like incentives.</span></p>
<p><b><i>Advantages     </i></b>Your accountant will probably love you. You’ll know what you make down to the penny every month, if not every week. You’ll know when to increase your hours or offer incentives to attract new clients to compensate for summer and winter slow downs.</p>
<p><b><i>Disadvantage     </i></b>All that math, all the time – need I say more? If this isn’t a root cause of OCD, I don’t know what is. LOL</p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">.</span><br />
The <span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Entrepreneurial Experiment Mindset </b></span>releases the business owner from the limits of dollars for hours thinking. This model reconstructs the traditional one client or one couple or one family per service hour model.</p>
<p>Instead, using multiple streams of income approach, your time is leveraged by working more with ongoing groups, recurring subscription services, and products that monetize your knowledge, in addition to a small, exclusive set of long term full fee individuals.<b></b></p>
<p><em><strong>Advantage      </strong></em>Marketing is more clear cut in a number of ways because your services have more clear definition, such as pre-paid time-bound packages, open-ended boutique care (retainers), and monetized information products.  Pricing for services and products can be fluid, changing as you receive data on what is producing the most return for the least opportunity cost.  When you achieve a well balanced mix of offerings, you&#8217;ll have maximum fun with minimum burnout.</p>
<p><em><strong>Disadvantage      </strong></em>Admittedly the entrepreneurial model isn’t for everyone. Most therapists will need to enlist the help of various technology gurus to keep the practice  / business humming along.  It&#8217;s difficult if not impossible to use a hybrid mix of collecting insurance payments while also operating from the entrepreneurial mindset &#8212; too many restrictions are imposed by insurance companies.   And  it requires out of the box thinking that makes most malpractice attorneys and professional associations frown.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ffffff;">.</span></p>
<p>If the Entrpreneurial Experiment Mindset model sounds like something you&#8217;d like to explore, <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/contact">contact me.</a>  I&#8217;d love to hear your ideas, and lend my 2 cents, if that would be helpful.</p>
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		<title>Six Tips for Effective Social Media Presence</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Apr 2013 15:27:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Dr Deah</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Counselors, coaches, and other solopreneurs in the healing arts often feel uncomfortable moving into the world of social media for private practice marketing. Too many platforms, and the feel of over-exposure, plus the unfamiliarity <span style="color:#777"> . . . &#8594; Read More: <a href="http://thenohypementor.com/six-tips-for-effective-social-media-presence/">Six Tips for Effective Social Media Presence</a></span>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Counselors, coaches, and other solopreneurs in the healing arts often feel uncomfortable moving into the world of social media for private practice marketing. Too many platforms, and the feel of over-exposure, plus the unfamiliarity with online technologies can be quite daunting.<a href="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/social_media.png"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2550" alt="social media culture" src="http://thenohypementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/social_media-150x150.png" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>So I thought I&#8217;d share what I&#8217;ve learned and now tell my clients about dipping our toes into this Facebook, Google+, and LinkedIn especially as a necessary part of a well rounded marketing plan.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Choose one platform to focus your efforts on until you feel proficient</b></span></p>
<p>Scattering yourself over every social media platform you can find without a strategy for quality is counterproductive – even with cool tools like Hootsuite, that allows you to pre-write and schedule your posts for multiple accounts at once. Quality beats quantity.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Engage / be responsive to your followers</b></span></p>
<p>You may get likes for your quotes and photos, you might give a lot of likes and share others posts, but the way to engage is to ask a question in a reply to others’ posts, or carefully give an opinion, state an agreement, or give a compliment.  It’s unnecessary to “sell” your practice – if your online identity is set up as a business name or tagline, you are automatically but subtly selling your practice with every post you make.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"> <b>Be yourself – tactfully</b></span></p>
<p>People talk about having a plan or strategy, which makes us think there’s some formula for social media. There’s not.  You’ll hear  that you should be engaged and helpful 80% of the time, and promote yourself 20%.  But the truth is that all engaged helpfulness is self-promotional.   The best strategy is to tactfully be yourself. Keep in mind that you are there for business purposes, but that potential clients will be attracted by your authenticity, by seeing you as a human being with a sense of humor, personal interests, and the ability to connect.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Don’t post when tired or frustrated &#8212; and no venting</b></span></p>
<p>Of course, It’s part of being “real” that we all are sometimes ticked off, exhausted, or irritated at something or somebody.  Save it for online groups or your personal – versus business – pages. You don’t want a potential client’s first impression of you to be made from the post where you’ve trash-talked some politician or corporate conglomerate.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Keep it short &amp; simple</b></span></p>
<p>Twitter has the right idea – posts of 140 characters are about all people really want. Facebook, Google+, and LinkedIn don’t restrict post lengths, so you’ll have to exercise some restraint. Those platforms are not the place to put blog-length posts. Instead write a “teaser” and give a link to your blog.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Re-read and correct</b></span></p>
<p>Before hitting the POST or SUBMIT or SEND button, take the time to proofread for spelling and grammar. Nothing degrades a professional presence more than typos and language mistakes.</p>
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